Subj: [incountrywomen] May ICW Newsletter

Date: 05/07/2000 8:21:12 PM Pacific Daylight Time

From: webmaster@illyria.com (Marilyn Knapp Litt)

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From Marilyn Knapp Litt

~InCountry Women Website-Learn about ALL the Women Who Served

http://www.illyria.com/vnwomen.html

Hello Everyone

I missed sending out a newsletter in April, so this will have to do

double duty. I apologize for missing sending out notices on events

during that period. My job continues to keep me very busy, but do

continue to send along announcements to

webmaster@illyria.com

There is a new book out by an Army nurse who was with the 24th

Evac. "A World of Hurt : Between Innocence and Arrogance in Vietnam"

by Mary Reynolds Powell. She includes the stories of seven of her

friends, among them a dustoff helicopter pilot, an infantry captain,

a Vietnamese aide, a drug counselor, and an emergency room nurse, who

were with her in Vietnam. I just started it and am impressed with

how well written it is. More details at:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0966531957/timobrienhomepag/002

-6235641-7452253

I also recommend a new book by a Vietnam war widow. "Grief Denied :

A Vietnam Widow's Story" by Pauline Laurent.

"Grief Denied" is a competently written book about a Vietnam

widow,

Pauline Laurent, who for many years lived a life defined by her

husband's death. In telling her story, she provides support as

well

as a roadmap on how to remake herself as woman whose life did not end

with her husband's. (My full review at the end of newsletter.)

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0967142407/timobrienhomepag/002

-6235641-7452253

Anne Philiben, 36th Evac, http://home.bendcable.com/thirtysixthevac/

is running for state office in Oregon. She says:

"I am uncontested in the primary. The real battle will be in the

fall. The senate district runs from the middle of Wasco County in the

North, all of Jefferson County, all of Deschutes County and half of

Klamath county." Anne has done a great job with her website for the

36th and has worked very hard on the 36th Evac reunion which is

coming up the end of May in DC. I'm sure she will work just as hard

in her district.

I am happy to pass this along!

UPDATE ON THE CIVILIAN WOMEN VOLUNTEERS ALL WARS HIGHWAY MEMORIAL

The California State Senate passed ACR83. Now the resolution goes to

the Secretary of State for signing. The dedication information is as

follows:

Where: On the grounds of the College of San Mateo, San

Mateo, CA

When: Memorial Day, May 29th at 11:00 a.m.

Contact: If you plan to attend, please contact either Maureen

Nerli at mnerli@hotmail.com or Assesmblyman Ted

assistant, Mary Beth Maloney at Marybeth.Maloney@asm.

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What follows are guest book entries & e-mail from February

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I served at the Embassy in Saigon in the 60's. I understand the

Embassy was recently razed and that someone is selling pieces of

it... like the Berlin Wall was sold. I'd love to get a souvenir piece

of the Embassy - does anyone out there know where to buy it???

glynch@fuse.net

I am in the process of applying for a scholarship at UC Berkeley to

produce a documentary on Military Women in Vietnam, the "film"

version of a good friend and fellow historian's senior thesis here in

our dept. If you are willing to be interviewed about your experiences

(possibly video at some point), please contact me at my e-mail

address. My focal point is the culture of idealism/patriotism that

sent women to war, how and if it changed, and their lives upon

return. Thank you for your time.

Karen Rodriguez'G <krod@uclink4.berkeley.edu>

Berkeley, CA USA - Tuesday, February 01, 2000 at 17:12:53 (CST)

I am a CW2 in the 1-223d Aviation Battalion at Fort Rucker, AL. I am

the unit historian and we are trying to gather any info and pictures

anyone may have of the unit in Viet Nam or even later (Germany too).

I know there were some medical personnel attached to the 223d Avn

Battalion at Qui Nhon and would appreciate any info. Thanks. Liz

Liz Sanders <jlsanders@mciworld.com>

Enterprise, AL USA - Tuesday, February 01, 2000 at 21:35:57 (CST)

I served at the 17th Field Hosp. Saigon, which became 216th Med.

Disp. in April 1968. We had some great nurses the the 17th, but they

were sent all over when they made the Hosp. a disp. It was too bad. I

would love to hear from anyone that was at the 17th.

Terry Shirley <taggmed@concentric.net>

Laguna Hills, CA USA - Wednesday, February 02, 2000 at 09:49:16 (CST)

I would like to thank all the nurses and Red Cross,etc. You did a

great job and we will never be able to thank you enough for the

support you gave our troops during that war are any time you spent

with the healing process.I have taled to a lot of veterans, a you

meant more than they realse at the time . Thanks to you girls and all

of our veterans. jean G>

jeannie gu <coffeegirl99_2000@yahoo.com>

USA - Wednesday, February 02, 2000 at 11:37:59 (CST)

As the daughter of a woman veteran, I know a little of what you all

must have gone through. Thank you for being so brave!

Aimee Sorrin

Brooklyn, NY USA - Thursday, February 03, 2000 at 12:07:07 (CST)

WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT ANY NERSES THAT WEREE ON THE SUNCTUAREY IN

1969,WAS ON THIRD TOUD WHEN I WAS SHOT THROUGH THE NECK, ONE MORE

THING, TOU NURSES DID ALLOT THAT WE TOOK FOR GRANET, MAY GOD BLESS

YOU ALL

LARRY TAYLOR <LOFISHON@HUMBOLDT1.COM>

EUREKA, CA USA - Friday, February 04, 2000 at 02:45:47 (CST)

Looking for others that served at 3nd Field and AnKhe during the time

I was there, Oct66-67. Would especially like to find Loretta Hensley

and Betty Green.

Helen vonMiller Buckelew <mira7@mindspring.com>

Big Canoe, GA USA - Friday, February 04, 2000 at 10:28:16 (CST)

I served at the 249th General Hospital in Asaka, Japan, South Camp

Drake in 68 & 69. and at the 3rd. Surg in Can Tho, VN in 70-71. I am

looking for anyone who served at either of those places or were

patients then.

Nancy (Quirk) Lilja <alnlilja@penn.com>

DuBois, PA USA - Friday, February 04, 2000 at 22:43:19 (CST)

I served at the 24th Evac as a Corpsman from Oct 1968 thru December

1969. Worked on the ortho wards (9&10), CMS, and as a scrub in

Surgery. I remember working with Lt Colleen O'Keefe, Lt Jan Muller,

and Cpt Deanna Ellis. I still stay in contact with Deanna. Enjoyed

working with a good group of nurses, doctors, and corpsman at the

24th. /Ed

Ed Fortmiller <egf@ultranet.com>

Hudson, MA USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 10:48:34 (CST)

I was stationed at Pleilu AB from may 1967 thru May 1968. I saw a lot

of horrible things, but thank the Lord , I never got a scratch. I

remeber many a nite and day of either going to the medivac to give

blood or driving other guys there, The sites and sounds were

terrifying. How you wonderful people were able to cope with it I'll

never know. I Salute you and will forever be grateful for you

unselfish dedication. This is one Vet that never needed your services

but sure in the hell was glad you were there. Thank You, and Welcome

Home!

George Delph <gdelph@wcoil.com>

Lima, Oh USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 10:52:36 (CST)

Some of you were wives, some were sisters, some were daughters but

all like us were over there. I was very lucky and never required more

than a band aid for most things, but I had friends that I grew up

with that needed alot more and for some that was not enough, but YOU

were there when their wives, sisters, daughters and mothers were not.

If no one has told you until now, Welcome Home and God Bless you,

from one who was there from 1/3/73 to 12/10/72 and if no one will say

I will THNAK YOU.

Bill Farmer <farb2@aerial1.com and spuds1@gte.net>

tampa, fl USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 11:59:35 (CST)

I served in the Marine Corps and was in country from 4/66 to

5/67...had the occasion to wake up in a field hospital in DaNang on

fine morning and will never forget how you all treated me. This is

the first time I have seen a site for you nurses, it was long

overdue. Thank you for putting your lives on hold and getting in

harms way to take care me and my buddys. And Welcome Home!!

Larry Braasch <Cmdr3525@aol.com>

Mercerville, NJ USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 15:53:03 (CST)

I am a RN who works in NYC.. I am back in school and need to do a

nursing history paper. I chose nurses who served in Nam. I am

watching the TLC show as I type. I have the outmost respect for you

all and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for all

your hard work for our men when I was just a child.. I am 34..God

bless you all..

kathleen mcauliffe <kathymac296@yahoo.com>

pearl river , ny USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 20:26:38 (CST)

This is in memory of a dear friend Phyllis who passed yesterday after

a brave battle with cancer. She spent her last few years working as a

nurse at our local Veterans hospital. Her courage and perserverance

will never be forgotten. Godspeed.

Rosemary

Altoona, PA USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 21:23:55 (CST)

Thank you, and welcome home. My husband was killed in Vietnam 31 yrs.

ago. I've always been so wrapped up in my own pain,that I'm just

starting to realize what you women went through. I am truly sorry for

that and I want you to know. my heart goes out to you. I, myself,

have never really healed, I can only imagine how you feel. Thank you

again and God Bless you!! You are the heart and soul of America!

Cherree Murphy <cherreem@webtv.net>

Waukesha, WI USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 22:43:23 (CST)

Just watch the program on TLC; it was very good. Although I

personally did not need the assistance of a nurse while in Vietnam,

your roles were and are VERY IMPORTANT. Thanks for everything Gary

Varnell USS Nicholas, DD-449 Tonkin Gulf 67-68

Gary N. Varnell, Sr. <oknamvet@aol.com>

Mannford, OK USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 23:02:38 (CST)

SEVERAL YEARS AGO I READ "HOME BEFORE MORNING" BY LYNDA VAN

DEVANTER.....NO BOOK I HAVE EVER READ TOUCHED ME MORE THAN

THAT....UNTIL TONITE....SEEING AND HEARING THE HEART FELT PAIN AND

SORROW THAT THESE WOMAN LIVED WITH EVERY DAY HAS DEFINTELY LEFT ITS

MARK ON ME....TO SAY NOTHING OF THE ADJUSTMENT TO EVERY DAY LIFE EACH

ONE OF THEM HAD TO ENCOUNTER ON THEIR RETURN HOME....MAY I

SAY "WELCOME HOME,JOB WELL DONE" TO A VERY INSPIRING GROUP OF

WOMEN...MAY GOD BLESS YOU ETERNALLY...

PAM <PAMMY912@aol.com>

Port Neches , TX USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 23:55:00 (CST)

67th Evac -- Qui Nhon March 66- Feb 67. Part of the original group

who set up the hospital -- worked at the 85th until the 67th was

ready -- spent Easter week at 2nd Surg, An Khe. Reunited with several

friends at the dedication of the Statue -- Thanks to Gloria Hudabo

and her diligence, most of the original and initial replacements have

been located. If you read this and have not been contacted (or found)

by Gloria, you can email me. We really want to contact our Corpsmen,

physicians and all others that were with us including any patients or

others that were in Qui Nhon. Nancy Paulson

Nancy Paulson <npaulson@prodigy.net>

Northridge, CA USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 01:17:03 (CST)

I was an Operation Room Tech at the 85th Evac in 1968 and 69. I'd

love to chat with anyone who might have known me. I got there shortly

after tet started and was with the 85th when we moved to Phu Bai. I

never realized how my experiences affected my life forever.

kerry ross <sbco@earthlink.net>

anaheim, ca USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 01:38:46 (CST)

I was a Combat Medic in Ban Me Thuot, Vietnam Nov.1967-Dec.25th.'68.

568th. Med. Clr. Co., 44th. Med. Brigade. I want to take this

opertunity to thank all of the nurses that served in Vietnam, taking

care of our wounded and sick. Because of you, thousands of soldiers

made it back home alive that wouldn't have otherwise. I love each and

everyone of you. Thank You for being there for us.

vette82@dreamsoft.net

Dwight L. Stilson <vette82@dreamsoft.net>

San Bernardino, Ca USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 04:23:34 (CST)

I'm looking for a Arlene Edwards. She was with the 45th. Surgical

Hospital rvn 68-69 Last I knew she was in Salem Or.

Rocky Burns <rockytop@earthlink.net>

ashland, oh USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 08:37:31 (CST)

My mother was a Captain in the Army Nurse Corp and served in Vietnam

in 1967. I am immensely proud of her and love her very much...she is

my hero. Thanks Jerry (Ma)

Cathy <CathyA@NSBVT.com>

Northfield, VT USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 10:23:54 (CST)

I was at the 67th Evac in 67 and - worked recovery and surg icu. My

name was Ensley then. I would love to hear from anyone from the old

unit.

Jerry Perkinson <jerry@makfg.com>

Powhatan, VA USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 11:09:52 (CST)

I am looking to make contact with Diana Dwan Poole, one the the

nurses featured in the TLC story of Vietnam Nurses. She was my

roommate in SanFrancisco. She went to Vietnam and I went to Japan.

There hasn't been a month of my life that I have not thought about

her and our experiences together and separately. Looking forward to

hearing from Diana and other friends from Letterman,Camp Zama Japan

or anywhere.

Bobby (Barbara Horton) Mills <dwightk@vci.net>

Paducah, KY USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 12:09:53 (CST)

(Please note she was put in contact with Diana)

Oct-70-Sept.71 Donut Dollie 101st Airborne-Phu Bai Oct.70-Jan. 71

Danang-Jan.71-June 71 Bien Tuy(Delta) June71-Oct.71 I have mixed

emotions about my year in Vietnam. I recall those fine young men,

dedicated nurses,the firebases and thoses wonderful rides in

helicopters. I haven't talked to anyone about my experiences,

however, I'd love to. To all those men and women who touched my life,

Where are you???? Contact:JMBbroad1@Netscape.net

Jean (Marsilli)Broadway <JMBbroad1@Netscape.net>

Yardley, Pa USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 13:33:34 (CST)

I was in A co. 2/47Mechanized Bn.,9th Infantry Div. I STARTED OUT OT

BEARCAT,MAR. 68 WAS ETS'D BACK HOME IN FEB. 69 I am married,two boys

I am proud of and a loving wife who has suffered from my PTSD i WOULD

LIKE TO Salute all the women who served in vietnam,civilian and

military. sincerely Anthony Planas

anthony t. planas <aplanas1@yahoo.com>

san antonio, tx USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 17:03:48 (CST)

I was with the 45th Surg when it first came in country. Actually

spent Sept, Oct. 1966 with the 3rd Surg in Bien Hoa then opened the

45th in Nov 66. Would be great to hear from anyone who remembers

those day. I have had a great life. Viet Nam was an important part of

it.

Mary Fran (Meyer) Brown <jebmfb@interplus.net>

Boise, Id USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 20:51:39 (CST)

First I would like to say welcome home to all the women that served

in Vietnam. I just finished watching the program Women at war that

aired on TLC, what a good program. I too am a Vietnam vet and was

lucky that I never needed your help. I am sure that you did all that

you could possibly do to help those heros that gave there all. You

are all very special people and we are all glad that we have women

that was able to do what you all did in a war that we all might not

understand. Thanks again, Love to all of you, for what you gave.

Ralph D McKie <marine@ctaz.com>

Kingman, Az USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 21:20:26 (CST)

Last visited this site in May '99; it continues to be an interesting

site. Again, if you were at the 249th in Japan during 1967-1969, I

would love to hear from you.

Virginia Kam Korte <oogabooga@elltel.net>

Ellensburg, WA USA - Tuesday, February 08, 2000 at 23:34:09 (CST)

What a wonderful site ! I have found my old roommate ! I was at

Letterman Gen Hosp in San Francisco 67-69 and then 67th EVAC in Qui

Nhon. I was Head Nurse of Orthopedics, then Head Nurse of Casualty

Receiving and Triage. Two Tours. We did what we did as Nurses out of

genuine love and admiration for our Brothers. We are no more heroes

than they. I am filled with awe at the heroism of each and every guy

that served over there--or in any war. We ALL did our jobs above and

beyond the call of duty. For love of Country--and for love of each

other. Still

Diana Dwan Poole <RNNamVet@aol.com>

Harrisburg, NC USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2000 at 00:31:48 (CST)

Dust Off 37 here. Congratulations to all the women/sisters who

served, especially those around Pleiku and those at the 71st Evac

that made it down to the Dustoff Compound and partied with the

pilots. We still Love Ya!! (Some of us more than others... three of

you that I know of married us.) Remember the sunsets?

Mike Rinehart <rinehartm@netzero.net>

Tallahassee, FL USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2000 at 13:13:26 (CST)

Served in Nam 69-70 spent eight out of twelve months in numerous

firesupport bases we were a 155sp battery.This is a great web

site .Thanks to all Great nurses and donut dollies who served in

ww2,korea,and the Nam.

Rich Pajka <gofish3@pridogy.net>

Glenwood, Il USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2000 at 15:17:49 (CST)

We are looking for Jan Moorehead. She worked in Da Nang in April of

1966 as a Red Cross worker. If anyone knows of her please let us

know!! Someone would like to thank her.

Sioux Empire Red Cross <searc@midco.net>

Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2000 at 15:32:54 (CST)

To ALL of you, my MOST SINCERE thanks for ALL you did. We ALL love

you and will NEVER forget. Saw a sign at the Women's Memorial this

past Memorial Day. It was written on a flap from a card board box. It

read "I don't remember your name, but thank you for saving my life."

It was signed,"One of many." God bless you all. ALWAYS be PROUD of

the job you did.

Bruce Hill <nhill@erols.com>

Herndon, Va USA - Wednesday, February 09, 2000 at 18:28:27 (CST)

This is a great website! I was fortunate to have a Vietnam buddy

write me about it. I served in Vietnam fro August, 1968 till

September, 1970. During that time I served with the 563rd Medical Co,

Chu Lai and Phu Bai (9/68-12/68); 85th Evacuation Hospital, Phu Bai

(1/69-5/69); the 45th Surgical Hospital, Tay Ninh (6/69-7/70) and

12th Evacuation Hospital, Cu Chi (7/70-9-70). Army nurses were a

great influence and positive role models in my life. Especially

remember a pretty little red head named LT Dickey at th 85th who took

care of me when I was sick with bilateral pneumonia in early 1969.

Left the Army and went to nursing school myself. Graduated from Kent

State University in Ohio in 1976 and joined the Navy Nurse Corps and

have been in for the last 23 1/2 years. Would like to hear from

anyone I served with. Also went through basic at Ft Knox, KY from

2/68-4/68 (E-8-3) and medica school at Ft Sam 5/68-8/68 (Class C-2).

Welcome home brothers and sisters!!

Frank Tesar <raset@gateway.net>

Gaithersburg, MD USA - Thursday, February 10, 2000 at 20:15:50 (CST)

71ST EVAC HOSP-PLEIKU: I served there from Aug 67 to Aug 68 in the HQ

admin area. I worked for RM Cook, 1st Lt. the unit Adj. After

exteding my tour for an early out I worked as the Officer's Club

Manager. I would like to hear from anyone who was stationed there. I

regret I cannot remember many names however you may remember me

serving you at the club or processing you in when you first arrived.

Where are you? Don't be afraid, surfing the web is something your

going to have to learn if you plan on living another 50 years.

Dan Ruza <Ruzad@aol.com>

Oakdale, MN USA - Friday, February 11, 2000 at 09:39:02 (CST)

I need help!! Looking for nurse Navy Capt.(I think) that was in

charge of post-op at Navy hospital near Danang in 1969. Didn't get to

thank her before I was sent back to my unit. Eats me alive from the

inside sometimes. Would like to hear from other nurses that were

there then too. God bless all of you! GySgt. Dave Beckman (Ret.)

PDBMauser@AOL.com

GySgt. Dave Beckman (Ret) <PDBMauser@AOL.com>

Johnson City, TN USA - Friday, February 11, 2000 at 10:46:10 (CST)

I was lucky enough to see a pair of Donut Dollies once in my two

tours in Pleiku. Thanks for reminding me of the Land of the Big PX.

You ladies helped us stay sane.... Larry

Larry Lins <llins@stratos.net>

Cleveland, oh USA - Friday, February 11, 2000 at 17:43:39 (CST)

Welcome Home all the ladys.I"am trying to fine a nurse that was

station in QUI NHON in 1965-1966.She worked at the 85th her name is

Mary Trujillo.any help would be great. Best Regards:From The OLd

Critter:Tom Hebert VIETNAM VET 65-66-68-69.

Thomas R.Hebert <bettytom@gte.net>

PORT RICHEY , FL USA - Saturday, February 12, 2000 at 04:51:00 (CST)

I am looking for HELP to locate any one from the 12th.AF hospital

at Cam Ranh Bay Who knew Nurse Lt. Taylor She was my Nurse In Feb. &

March 1968 Thank You A Grateful Marine,Ken A Burnett

Ken A Burnett <KBur102@aol.com>

Clinton Twp., MI USA - Saturday, February 12, 2000 at 00:28:16 (CST)

I served in Vietnam at the 67th Evac Hospital in QuiNhon in 1969-

1970. I was a nurse in the Surgical Intensive Care and Recovery Room.

Glenna (Donelson) Hardy <glenna@snowcrest.net>

Weaverville, Ca USA - Friday, February 11, 2000 at 19:30:08 (CST)

I served with the American Red Cross Recreational Services (Donut

Dollies) Dian Vietnam 1966. I would like to contact other ARC workers

of that time.

Midge Patty Wooldridge <mpattyw@aol.com>

Santa Teresa, NM USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2000 at 10:01:37 (CST)

Thank you, and welcome home. I was deployed with the 9th Infrantry

Division, from Ft. Riley, KS, to Bearcat Vietnam, in 1966. I was the

NCOIC of the 9th Inf. Div. Casualty Branch. If there is anyone that

was there 11/66-11/67 that remembers me, I would love to hear from

you.(SSG Switzer) Contact me thru E-Mail, And Welcome Home to all of

you, too.

Owen Switzer <Switzeeo@intermediatn.net>

Louisville, TN USA - Sunday, February 13, 2000 at 15:41:08 (CST)

I am looking for anyone who knew my brother, Dr. Douglas Foster. He

served at the 24th Evac Hospital in the early 70's. Thanks.

Donna Orozco <CDCB3557@compuserve.com>

Phoenix, Az USA - Sunday, February 13, 2000 at 14:25:11 (CST)

Thanks to your effort with this Guest book, I've been able to thank

several nurse's and Ed Fortmiller, a Corpsmen, that worked on me in

Vietnam. There are blank spot in my memory banks and they have helped

fill them in. GOD BLESS YOUR EFFORTS. In HIS Service, Jim MP

Jim Brunotte <jrbruno@gte.net>

Vista, Ca USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2000 at 16:11:56 (CST)

Served from 8/69-8/79 with 4th ID. Looking for any information on a

black soldier wounded in Cambodia about 7 May 1970. Nickname was

Snowball. He was shot in the neck and leg close to what became LZ

Phillips. I took command of the company after CPT Mincey walked into

an ambush, captured and then executed along with two others. I was

the one, with the help of others, who went out and got Snowball from

the kill zone. As far as I know he survived his wounds but I never

heard what happened to him for sure. Also remember a nurse named CPT

Brody (of course we called her CPT Body) who took care of me when I

had malaria in November at a hospital in Cam Rahn. I remember

watching the movie Green Beret for the first time at an outdoor movie

at Cam Rahn.

Bill Babcock <babbie1@home.com>

Narragansett, RI USA - Friday, February 18, 2000 at 09:34:15 (CST)

I was a medical specialist at the 106th General Hospital (Kishine

Barracks). I was there from July, 1967 until May, 1970. I worked on

the burn ward (C-2) and orthopedics (D-2 & D-3). I would like to hear

from patients and staff.

Michael Reeder <hiphyed@ptsi.net>

USA - Thursday, February 17, 2000 at 17:32:36 (CST)

'Would love to know who the 2nd LT was who took my patient history in

93rd Evac (might have been the 24th) on 1 Dec 70. I was a very brash

CWO2 Helo Pilot who had been involved in a stupid accident, alcohol

related - of course, at the 90th Replacement Battalion three hours

before I was due to fly home. She sat on the foot of my bed. Just

then, tall blonde Nurse Corps Major, truely, a hot-lips hoolihan

clone, screamed at her to never sit on a patients bed again.

John L. Morris <morrisjl@aol.com>

Bethesda, MD USA - Thursday, February 17, 2000 at 10:22:42 (CST)

We are seeking women who have served with the 820th RED HORSE Civil

Engineering Squadron (USAF). This unit was initially commissioned in

1966 and sent to Tuy Hoa Air Base, Viet Nam. In 1970, it was

relocated to Nellis AFB, Las Vegas, NV, which has been its base of

operations since. We are planning a reunion in 2001 for all 820th

alumni and want to reach as many Red Horsewomen as possible. Please

feel free to contact me at pamukale@aol.com or the Alumni committee

at their website, http://www.820redhorse.com.

Kristin Clark, 820 RHCES, 1993-4 <pamukale@aol.com>

Freeville, NY USA - Saturday, February 19, 2000 at 21:08:22 (CST)(I

would like to hear from any women as well if they would like to write

something for my website. Thanks! webmaster@illyria.com )

was in 71st evac,april 68,for a stomach problem.you nurses were very

professional,but also very nice to everyone.it was nice to look at

pretty round eye girls.yes you will always be young and beautiful to

me.the same as my fallen buddies are still 19 or 20 years old.i

salute each and every one of you.god bless you all. sincerely.bill.

bill taylor <djremle@yahoo.com>

i am going to write a screenplay about women in vietnam. i thought

that this site would be a great place to start my information hunt. i

think that the women of vietnam deserve a film. i have never seen a

film about the women of vietnam and i would like to see one get made.

i have written short films before but have never tackled a screenplay

that is serious. any stories anecdotes or ideas please email them to

me. i appreciate the help and all the info on this site. thank you

andy

Andy Schuerr <andyschuerr@prodigy.net>

spring grove, il USA - Thursday, February 24, 2000 at 11:30:08 (CST)

I was corpsmen stationed at 3rd. field Hospital, Siagon from Dec.69-

Nov.70. Would like to hear from anybody stationed there from same

period. I have a few pic. of the hospital, people there, surrounding

area etc.

Bill <Roddney99@aol.com>

IL USA - Monday, February 21, 2000 at 22:00:17 (CST)

When I was wounded the base camp came under rocket attack and the

nurses took those who could walk to the bunker and those of us who

couldnt walk they slid under the bed. Then they just walked from bed

to bed to see if we needed anything such as pain pills or cigarettes

or anything else. After I got to Japan I didnt have any money or

anything and needed some smokes. The Red Cross was closed for the

night so the nurse that night went down to the machine and bought a

pack for me out of her own pocket. Dont remember names but do

remember how well I was treated. May God bless them all.

Donald Rusbult <drusbult@netins.net>

Marengo, Ia USA - Monday, February 21, 2000 at 21:59:35 (CST)

Thank you so much ladies. Your mission was so important to us. I was

in Qui Nhon in 1970-71. When I see some of your pictures our lives

become so real from so long ago. Can anybody locate Steve Mathews for

me?

Howard C. Evans <evansh@qangfed.com>

Hamilton, Va USA - Monday, February 21, 2000 at 10:11:43 (CST)

As a medical service specalist in the USAF stationed at Da Nang AB at

the 366th USAF Dispensary, I know first-hand how much TLC all those

women in Vietnam gave away. Great site!!! 3/6/71-3/6/72

Albert <big_daddy1952@yahoo.com>

Lodi, CA USA - Monday, February 21, 2000 at 01:44:18 (CST)

lancaster, ohio USA - Friday, February 18, 2000 at 14:04:20 (CST)

In rvn april 68 to april 69 at 95th Evacuation hospital in DaNang. I

am organizing our 4th reunion to be held in New Orleans th summer

of2001. All interested please contact me with addresses included.

we've had three reunions since 1992 and every one was great.

Louis Cucinotta,MD <doctorlgc@msn.com>

new orleans, la USA - Thursday, February 24, 2000 at 22:21:46 (CST)

In rvn april 68 to april 69 at 95th Evacuation hospital in DaNang. I

am organizing our 4th reunion to be held in New Orleans th summer

of2001. All interested please contact me with addresses included.

we've had three reunions since 1992 and every one was great.

Louis Cucinotta,MD <doctorlgc@msn.com>

new orleans, la USA - Thursday, February 24, 2000 at 22:21:46 (CST)

I am looking for a woman that had a baby girl at Walter Reed Army

Medical Center on 12/70. She was inlisted in the Military. Aprox 22

yrs old, 5'10", light brown hair, blue eyes, may have worn glasses.

She may have been a nurse @ the Med. Center? She dated a Military man

that was 23, 6'5", sandy blonde hair, blue eyes. Please help us find

missing family members! Email funnyhouse@about.com thanks, Laura

Laura De Shazo <funnyhouse@about.com>

Milford, NJ USA - Tuesday, February 29, 2000 at 13:44:58 (CST)

This is an incredible website. As a writer with a deep concern about

the psychological effects of violence on women, I am interested in

getting in touch with nurses who served in Vietnam who are suffering

from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or who may have information about

the government program set up to give counseling to nurses who are

still deeply troubled by their experiences in Vietnam. Please feel

free to e-mail me. Thank you.

Ginny Wray <ErikaBlair@aol.com>

Pelham, NY USA - Monday, February 28, 2000 at 14:12:32 (CST)

 

THESE ARE FROM DUSTY'S WEBSITE

I seldom (can) watch a documentary on VietNam. I've just

watched 'Women At War' on TLC tonight. And I have come to a tragic

realization. While I was in VietNam, although I never (thank God)

needed a nurse's services, I knew you all were there if I did. This

was of unmeasurable comfort to me in a period of fear and naivety.

While I was in VietNam, I often needed and occasionally happened upon

the services of 'Donut Dollies' or female entertainers. This also was

of unmeasurable comfort to me. Since I returned from VietNam, I have

thought of you all and the comfort you provided more and more as the

years have passed by. But I have just come to the realization that I

assumed that you knew how much you meant to us all, even though you

knew few of us and saw fewer of us - yet you did not. And, worse

still, I came to the realization that you, our sisters, paid as high

a price - and perhaps higher - than many of our brothers. Although it

was many, many years before I was 'welcomed home' or 'thanked' for

doing a job that I thought was right, I was shocked to learn that

many of you still have not been! 'Welcome Home!' my sisters -

and 'Thank YOU!' for being there - doing what was needed - and paying

the price it took, then and since. And, if you are not sure if you'll

have a flag draped upon your coffin, please contact me and I'll send

one to you and put it place if I can when the time comes. Steve

Durocher PhuTai Valley (QuiNhon) '69-'70

Steve Durocher <StDuroch@UP.Net>

Marquette, MI USA - Monday, February 07, 2000 at 22:11:21 (CST)

First and foremost ....thanks to all of you who treated and cared for

me from Sept 1968 to Oct 1969. I don't remember who were by name but

I remember being VERY greatful for your efforts and kindness when I

was wounded and needed you all more than anything. (Excepting the

kazillion shots of anti- biotics in the butt....) :-) I remember

being in the field hospital in Na Trang ..... then Japan (my records

show "MHD USH Cp Zama Japan") then the flight to Walson Army Hosp, Ft

Dix, NJ via Alaska. A little info I was hit in Duc Lap Fri, 13 Sept

68. I wounded in the right arm. The doctors took 2 intact .30 caliber

rounds out of my arm. While in transit I had 1 or both rounds sewed

under plastic on an olive drab scarf. I am thinking I had my unit

patch sowen over the plastic. (173 Abn Bde... my unit was C/4/503).

Unfortunatly I left the scarf behind at one of the hospitals I

transited from. But once again .... thanks to all of you!!!!

The "Angel of Death visited many .... The Angels of Mercy (you all)

cheated it out of many". God bless you all... Welcome home...... A

greatful vet! J. W. Cryer Daytona Beach, Fl USA - Wednesday, February

16, 2000 at 06:06:11 (CST)

J. W. Cryer <buckaro@bellsouth.net>

Daytona Beach, Fl USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2000 at 06:18:03 (CST)

. I served as a doorgunner on a UH-1H with the 229th Assault

Helicopter Battalion, out of Bien Hoa 71-72. Many times I would

wonder, if this would be the day we went down into that LZ and never

came back out. It was nice knowing how great the you Nurse's were at

your job in those field hospitals and maybe that made it a little

easier for this young 18 year old boy. Thanks you so much from the

bottom of my heart, for all you wonderful lady's that we

called "Angels". I found this to be ture and this I know for a fact

and we love you all and will never ever let you fall, and if we can

help in anyway to ease your pain, you know we would. Thanks for your

service and the caring ways that you showed us then and now, for you

fellow veteran's. Take care little lady and please come on over and

visit our website, for the 229th AvBn. Keep up with your wonderful

writing and your website is looking great "Dusty" and "Welcome Home"

to you and your fellow Nurse's. We are proud of you all for the job

you did in Viet-Nam. Clear Right "Dusty".

John "Eod" Hubbs <Skytrooper@stic.net>

Pipe Creek, TX USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2000 at 16:15:47 (CST)

 

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My review of "Grief Denied"

"Grief Denied" is a competently written book by a Vietnam war widow,

Pauline Laurent, who for many years lived a life defined by her

husband's death. In telling her story, she provides support as well

as a roadmap on how to remake herself as woman whose life did not end

with her husband's. Forming a life around death does not ultimately

sustain the will to live.

A young widow, expecting her first child, Laurent did not know how to

grieve. Everyone told her to be strong and, implicitly, to get over

it. She had nightmares and persistent thoughts that her Howard

wasn't in the coffin they weren't allowed to open. Instead of the

thanks of a grateful nation, she received a silence that evoked a

sense of shame. Laurent coped by developing a stoicism and anger

that kept her husband's death unfinished business.

The effort cost her. One chapter is titled "The Lost Years." The

book is very detailed on how she recognized things weren't right with

her and her efforts to change that. She says: "It seems as if the

experiences that we, the survivors of that war, have tried to forget,

deny, and ignore are now knocking on the door of our unconsciousness,

asking to be remembered and finally dealt with so that we can truly

move forward with our lives." That she has done with this memoir.

Not forgotten in her book is the importance for a child to grieve,

maybe especially for a posthumous child as all the father represents

is loss. I particularly recommend it, not just to widows, but to

anyone who had a family member killed in Vietnam.

Marilyn Knapp Litt

In Country Women Guest Book http://www.illyria.com/vn_guest.html

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Books, Videos, and Stuff of Interest to Women Who Served in Vietnam

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http://www.illyria.com/vnbooks.html

 

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